Hair Loss – and Why It Is So Hard to Recognize the Ever-Present Separation Conflict
Why we often only see the trigger once someone else points it out.
Hello, John!
Here’s my testimonial about hair loss. If you decide to publish it, please do so anonymously.
It happened in 2022. I returned to work in August after my summer vacation and noticed a lot of hair on the comb after washing and combing my hair, which shocked me. I was familiar with GHK at the time. I knew that hair loss was a symptom of the conflict active phase, and I knew that it was an active separation conflict, but I couldn’t think of anything that could explain it. Everything was going well in my life at the time. The C. bullshit had receded, there were no conflicts with my friends or family, and no one had left me. I couldn’t think of anyone I wanted to be separated from.
I talked to my husband and asked him if he knew who I wanted to be separated from or whom I was separated from, but he couldn’t think of anything either. I talked to several people who were very familiar with GHK. One of them asked me if I had been to the hairdresser before noticing the hair loss and whether the hairdresser had said anything about my hair. I remembered that I had been to the hairdresser in May of that year and that she had said, “Wow, you have a lot of gray hairs.” Her comment struck me because I was proud of my beautiful hair and had no intention of dyeing it. I believe I experienced her comment as a conflict, but that somehow resolved itself soon afterward because, when I went back for another haircut, she spontaneously said some nice things about my hair. So, this wasn’t the DHS I was looking for.
Months passed, and I kept trying to make note of things that could be related to the hair loss, but nothing made sense. This hair loss was an additional DHS. I couldn’t stop thinking about it and kept trying to find a solution. I even resorted to using various shampoos and supplements to promote hair growth. I knew this wouldn’t resolve my conflict, but doing something made me feel better.
Then, one evening in January 2023, I went out with my husband and brought up the topic of hair loss again. I explained to him once more that it had to be someone I wanted to separate myself from or someone I didn’t want to be separated from. Then he said, “You constantly talk about that woman who is always annoying you — the new cleaning lady at work — and you’ve said that she’s always getting in your hair.” (The expression I used in my language contains the word “head”; translated literally into English, it would be something like “she’s constantly pecking at my head.”) He also said that he thought I was aware of it because it was something I often mentioned to him, but I wasn’t. Because of my short-term memory loss, which is also a symptom of an active separation conflict, it never crossed my mind that the person I wanted to separate myself from was constantly present in my life.
In December 2021, I was sent to work at another location because I refused to be tested, vaccinated, or wear a mask. A few months later, when none of these measures were required anymore, I was returned to my old workplace. My colleagues told me that we had a new cleaning lady and that she was nice. When I met her, she seemed friendly, but she never stopped talking. I wasn’t prepared for that. The woman was (and probably still is) a mythomaniac. She wouldn’t leave me alone when we worked the same shift. She always found work to do near my desk, and her constant talking was driving me crazy. It was exhausting. I was looking forward to the summer vacation. I didn’t notice any hair loss at the time; I only noticed it after the vacation, in August, when I returned to work and the cleaning lady was still there, getting in my hair.
I was relieved that I had finally found the DHS. Now I needed to find a way to politely tell the woman to leave me alone, and this wasn’t as easy as I had thought. I avoided her as much as I could. I tried to work the opposite shift. Luckily, she was soon transferred to another location, and the new cleaning lady is really nice and isn’t a mythomaniac. So the conflict resolved itself. The hair loss stopped, and soon I noticed new hair growing. . Mythomaniacs are still a track, however. Whenever I find myself stuck with a mythomaniac and cannot get away from that person. I do my best to avoid such situations.
Commentary by GHK-Academy
A fantastic testimonial.
You wouldn’t believe how many women suffer from hair loss and swear that they have not suffered a separation conflict. No one they wanted to be separated from, and no one they were separated from. All too easily one forgets the fact that biological natural laws are iron.
If there is a symptom, then there has also been a DHS!
If there was no DHS, then there is also no symptom!
NO EXCEPTION!
Especially with separation, the following applies: The biological meaning of this SBS is not the symptom of the skin or the hair; the biological meaning is the short-term memory, the forgetting of the person or living being from whom one was separated or from whom one wanted to be separated. And yes, one often has the track right before one’s eyes, every day. One talks about it at every opportunity. But when one is asked about a separation conflict, then the DHS is the very last thing that would come to mind.
Often it is as described, that other people can more easily recognize what one has an unresolved issue with, or life leads one down other paths so that the track no longer exists (as in the present report). And then the symptomatology suddenly disappears, and one doesn’t even notice it. One only notices symptoms as long as one has them.
With this testimonial, it should really become clear to every doubter with hair loss or a bald head: Yes, you have an active separation conflict, and no, you have not yet found it and certainly have not resolved it, even though it annoys you every day.
No meditating, no forgiving helps with that, nor do dietary supplements or miracle cures help. As long as the conflict is not resolved, ALL symptoms of the conflict-active phase remain present. Period!
Many thanks for the permission to publish this report.
John Holledauer





